Most women feel that a child " completes" them. So, they get married and the next important step is childbearing. Today, you don't have to wait to get married. Married or unmarried, a natural or adopted child is a beautiful experience.
But do you know that this soul has actually chosen it's mom to come into this world? Unbelievable, right? We call it an accident of birth in our ignorance. But it is not so at all. In fact, there are no accidents or coincidences in this world. Everything has a reason. There is a large cosmic plan at work which we don't recognise nor are aware of.
All of this is true, by the way. Every child has a past life connection, or what is called a "karmic" connection with this family of souls it chooses as its nurturing environment for the initial few years. This soul could have been your parent, ancestor, sibling, friend or even enemy in some past lives. Role playing is such an integral and vital part of "karma",that your child today could have been your brother or sister..anyone. So, the Universe did not give us a memory of these roles from other lives. Otherwise, just think how difficult it would be to play a different role in the current life.
What happens is, when we are unable to release our "baggage" of negativity with people, places and events in an earlier life and carry these to our grave, some of this unfinished business will confront us in this life. So, newborns come with an agenda that needs to be played out and healed. That is why their choice of a mom is centred around being near those souls that they need to interact with.
The reason why moms are naturally equipped to give the maternal love, is because the child is aware of its' past lives when it is born. The healing process should ideally start with the mom because she is the main caretaker of the baby during the first few years. The foetus also imbibes all of the mom's feelings and experiences while in the womb. So, those moms who think otherwise, must become vigilant about their every thought, emotion and action. THEY ARE BEING WATCHED AND HEARD !
Now, a word about adopted children. Adopted children are as important as your own children. They also come into your life , already connected from other lives. The only difference is that they are not born through you. In such cases, a nurturing mom is more important than a natural mom.
Remember the story of Lord Krishna who was born to Devaki but brought up by Yashoda.
(Reference : the spiritual text Mahabharata ).
Moms must be advised that the quality of loving in both cases of natural and adopted kids should be equal. And for those moms or families of such women who cannot love an adopted child , as a professional healer, they would be well advised not to adopt one at all.
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